You know you need to get visible. You’ve heard all about brand visibility. You know you need to focus on income generating activities. You have all the courses and freebies and podcast recordings to prove it.
But it feels like you’re invisible because you want clients and you’re working your butt off to make that happen, but it’s not happening.
You want to attract the clients you’re meant to serve.
You want to make the money you need to make so you can keep serving those clients.
But you feel a little like the image below.
Because you’re you’re so busy (overwhelmed, actually).
You’re working so hard to get out there.
But with all the noise in this online world, you feel:
And if you’re honest? Kinda scared.
(Actually, wake-up-in-a-panic-in-the-middle-of-the-night scared.)
Because you wonder if you can ever be seen and heard over the noise that’s screaming all around you.
You’re being pulled in 47 directions at once by all those courses, podcasts, emails, freebies, groups and all that talk about yet. more. people. who. reached. six. figures and how you should do it too.
Thing is? What you’re doing is actually hiding.
Because you’re also scared about the actual standing out part. You know. The brand visibility you need to have. And the income generating activities you need to do.
I get that, believe me. Shaky knees, silent voice, pounding heart, sweaty body parts, feeling-like-puking-and-dying scared? Yup. That was me too.
Mostly you’re scared because you secretly believe you’re just not good enough. Maybe that looks like:
- What if they say no?
- What if I mess up?
- I don’t have it perfect yet.
- What if they judge me (for no makeup, for makeup, for gray hair, for dyeing my gray hair, for my background, for how I say things, for my crappy tech . . . and the list goes on)?
- What if I’m just a fraud?
I totally get that, too. It has been my hugest lesson in my life to learn that I am good enough.
But it becomes this cycle that keeps repeating over and over again:
You know you need to be visible so you can get clients.
So you get busy working hard and it feels like you’re getting out there, but you’re really not getting out there because you really don’t want to be visible because you’re scared.
So you actually hide behind all the busy work. It might be important work. But it’s not the stuff that’s really going to get you out there and get you clients.
And then you don’t get clients because you’re not really visible.
And it feels frustrating and confusing and now even more scary because you really need to make some damn money.
And it’s so discouraging because you wonder what is wrong with you that you can’t make it work.
So you gather more stuff (that overwhelms you) and get working again.
I hear you.
If you wanna break outta that cycle and feel:
and calm . . . not like a mess . . . when you scroll through your news feed in the morning with that hot cup of coffee that is supposed to feel cozy
Then click below to get started and build your brand visibility.